.: My Manhaj - YES vs NO :.

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim..

Hmmmmmmm................!

Sometimes it is quite hard for us to make a decision..esp, about somethg that related to our life as a daie..Our decision today will determine our life around 10 to 20 ys later..so good planing is needed so that we will not regret later..Either YES or NO..?? decision is in our hand!

I still can remember one of my fren's advice last night..He said..As a Daie, it is very important for us to have our own planning or manhaj since few years ago..maybe now, it seems quite late for us but for those who still dont have any personal planning, its better to do start planning now! Plan on what we r going to do after this..further studies in master or working? Plan on where we want to work..where we want to live..what type of house do we want to buy..n of course, do plan on when we will get married!!

Maybe it sounds funny when we talk about married..for me as well..but actually it is really important for those who had declared themselves as a Daie..Few questions should be asked now.. Who will be going to be our husband or wife? From what family background they are? From what state are they? and of cause is he or she has the same Fikrah as we are?...

Hmmm...Not as simple as A B C..and not as easy as counting 1 2 3..

The statement that 'All is in Allah's hands' is right! but do remember..Allah will never change our life until we do change it by our own self! Meaning..we need to do planning and make our own decision + do our best to achieve it..then,we can do tawakkal to Allah..

Act, now im in dilemma..my family n here..both need me! Sometimes, our experience may change our decision that we already made before..from NO to YES! n from YES to NO!..from I DONT WANT TO BE.... to.. I NEED TO BE....and etc.. all need precision and a very good evaluation..plus need a very good relationship wth The Almighty..pray + doa'..I still remember one of my fren sms..To cope wth stress..Quran has the answer..

Maybe now, we are feeling so strong n confident by having good frens around us..frens that always be with us in joy n tears..but do remember that it will not be last longer! We will continue our own journey in different way..all will be spread everywhere..like long coarse grass flower that blow by the wind..flying n following its own way (my own idiom). Our 'job' still did't finish yet! Thats what our life for..n why do we were send here. to be a Khalifah..

I believe.. everyone have their own ambition and mission..do planning and insyaAllah..whatever that u r planning for will become true wth the addition of hard work and tawakkal to Allah..What u give..u get back!..You r the one who determine ur life.. a simple notes for u n me..sharing is caring.. Let the Ummah Rise!! -Wasalam-